Have you ever had to witness a couple in a heated argument in public? No fun, right? I believe they call that “cringe” these days. For good reason, too. And I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in corporate meetings where heated opinions drowned out any hope of some productive talk.
But productive talk is a choice so many don’t choose.
And why would anyone prefer to avoid it? Well, I learned a long time ago, when communication is difficult for you, at least talk about that. Sounds funny, right? But here’s what I mean.
Be willing to let people know when it’s not easy for you to communicate what you feel or mean. That’s actually a great way to get communication, aka: a productive talk, started. And don’t be surprised if the other person shows a lot more understanding than you thought they would. Because there’s a good chance the feeling is mutual.
But if you’re worried you might lose your composure, stick to the following tips:
- Remember to breathe. Anxiety can negatively affect your breathing and lead to more anxiety.
- Communication isn’t a race. So keep to your rhythm. And you’ll keep your composure.
- Be quiet. People who are comfortable with silence often appear to be the smartest in the room. Negotiations 101 says whoever speaks first loses. Don’t let that be you.
- Listen. Pay attention to questions. And give direct answers. They don’t hand out prizes for the longest answer. And the more words you use, the more likely you’ll say or do something wrong.
- Focus. When you get off topic, you lose your audience. “Just the facts ma’am”
Remember, you have two ears and one mouth for a reason.
You learn a lot more by listening. So, if you wanna be heard, listening more will help. And that kind of communication will help you make sure productive talk is one of the easiest parts of your business.
And, by the way, when you wanna make all the rest of the parts of your business easier, plug into my RondaReady Business System book. Using my System, lots and lots of clients have already increased their profits lots and lots. You should be next.
So, invest in your own copy of the RondaReady System book, today. And it IS a good investment. Because it can pay for itself exponentially, and help you…
Stay Ready,
Ronda
Responsive Organized Nonstop Development Authority
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